A confess to friend.

 Friend a person whom you rely upon. A person who indirectly gives you his support and is always behind you when you grow and with you at the time you fall. His invisible happiness for your growth and late-night tension at times of worse. Communication for which we do not have to learn its language. Their care even exists when we expect the least. 

Do we treat them the way they are ought to be? 

Many times I have realized that I myself have done many mistakes by just thinking something shit actually really shit. An apology to your friends can help to come out of a small dispute.

If you think you have made a mistake knowingly or unknowingly then go and just tell him/her how the thing hurts you and you are sorry for the same. Keeping respect for a person in your heart is not a work of greatness, do show it at the time required. A great wise step is that forgiving a person at the right time and living with him the cheerful life you wanted. 

I guess we have become that much capable of thinking whether we need a life where people around us are happy and doing great all together or we need a life where people around us who were known to us become someone who is always busy in comparing our lifestyle to his just in the well of jealousy.

Do open us your eyes, forgiveness is not only an act of kindness but a thing which if granted at the right time then they can prove to be beneficial in different aspects of life. Don't repeat things which others do, you got a CPU of your own use it and see what's beneficial to you and take decisions at the right hour of need.

At last a sorry to my friends who deserved a lot than I could have given them so far. But still, if I can be helpful in any way then I will be standing there with a smile on my face.

Act of Forgiveness

Many times we mess up things in life and its completely understandable as we all are into trying new things and if things go out of our hands then, the only thing we desire is a "SECOND CHANCE".

If we look with a perspective of solving the problem then we would find that the thing was not a big deal, it's our ego(that's also borrowed from the society and entertainment videos). Have you ever been hit by a small kid accidentally, then do you fight him or do you stop talking to him, you make yourself calm down thinking that he/she doesn't the difference between good and bad. Why don't you try of giving the same second chance to people when you grow up.

Often people say that if once the bond is broken then tying it won't make the bond the same as old, well its common sense when the rope breaks then you make a knot so that would be a transformation, not a restoration. Similarly, when you try to make the bond join again then, it won't be as it was but I can be better stronger and could last long, only the thing that matters I the way you want it to be.

Tu PHODEGA

Everybody has people in his life who influence him or who are like an inspiration to him not matter that how small the impact they have in his life but they are one who's living and thinking way brings fire in you to achieve the same.

See there is nothing like that the advice given to you by somebody is good or bad, its simply a method given to you by him because he thinks about the topic in your favor but with a different perspective.

If you find changes or modernization is a small thing then remembers that it will surely be having an impact on more than 100 things that consult it, and they would have the next 100 and the story goes on.

So it brings a light that things change and the way to achieve changes with the advancement in time.

A small example will make this thing clear... Now assume you with your 4 friends are standing in a line and there is a pack of food 100m straight ahead of you and you all 5 want to have it and unfortunately your speed is not much, so don't you think you would not get a chance, or even if you get then there would not be much left to satisfy your hunger. But if I tell you that there is another way to the same pack of food the thing is the path is 150m and there are 2 dogs in between sitting in the way, it might be tough but if you try you will get it and ultimately satisfy the hunger you have in for food and other will either set you as an example or they gona be afraid of trying because they are afraid of getting a defeat(first taste of success) in their path.

You must have a great idea but must approach it in a similar way because ultimately you are the author of your own book and it's up to you that do you want the book you wrote to be read by you yourself or you want people to read it and learn from it and set it as an example.

YOU and your mates will enter the same door but it's now up to an individual that how much he want to explore the area and utilize the resources. Failure teaches more than a book because there you get a physical and mental memory attached to the situation.

IF you work 1 hr extra per day it accounts to 365hrs extra time (SELF INVESTMENT) over the year... and believe me, it will not go trash,,, it will make your ideas hatch and will motivate you to push yourself.

That ONE LIFE to Live

The thing is pretty much clear with us that want we want to do in life, it compromises of various things but personal satisfaction and a respected lifestyle is what counters on for the major part of the one.

Never choose a field because it has much scope and you will do certain things which others did and a handsome of money to get a decent life ahead. Be logical by the time you pass out of your schools you know much about yourself, you know the thing you are good at and are capable of doing it. 

Is it better to take a field in which we are much involved in, you can certainly brush up your skills in it and get much out of it within less investment in time. 

I have seen many others choosing field just because of the present scope but that does not work for all.

To dive deeper I would like to share my own experience, I was fond of the Indian Army since I was in 2nd grade. I started working on it since my childhood no matter where it came from, I was hungry to learn about it and the way it worked. I worked on many attitudes towards different situations and implemented them in my life and now after being medically out I started to prepare for JEE but being a computer science engineer is something I see as not for what I inculcated those qualities in me.

It's my own thinking about my situation, but do think about your present move because the real truth of lie is that we all have ONE LIFE. So better do something that gives you the boost to come out of your bed 

, because that's the thing you are made for.

If you want to pursue anything just do it don't be afraid of society's reaction and failure if you have an interest in it just work on it the thing will eventually take you to success itself.🔜

The 7 days life

Well, we all think about living a great life of doing all things we like to do but when we are kids. After this age, we keep compromising with our selves and with our efforts for the same. We start thinking like the other surrounding us, that's nice if you have the positive impacts of your friends on your life.

I am fascinated by Mr. Aman Dhattraval, he also said in his video to assume life to be a 7-day lifespan. 

Now if I say to you that life has only 7 days left, will you still sleep 8 hours, or rather you would go and enjoy what you dreamt of about when you were a kid.

The thing is you will run to speak to someone special, you would go to play on PS if you dreamt of playing video games, you would go for adventure if you were full of adrenaline, You will not still thinking about the end of life rather you would enjoy each and every moment and would count the value of each second in those 7-days.

Now at the end of the day if I say that sorry, I am happy by your zeal to life and am giving you your life back, then you would realize that if we want we can do anything in our life. It's our past habits made into us that restrict our actions of present to full fill our dreams that we dreamt of when we were kids.

Each one of you yes you have the potential to do anything you want, no matter how back are you in the race just sprint this out because that would lessen the gap in the next coming rounds as life is an endless track of 400* infinite marathon.

Do believe in this world you would find people who would do argue with your decisions in life, but trust me they even don't know the real value and guts it's required to make a decision and living with it.

You have much potential you really think of, just keep the paddle acc. at highway and drive smooth at the corners as your tires must be respected if you want a long smooth ride in life. 

Just start doing little by today and with time when things get more than 20% completed,

you gona be charged to do it 110% within less time and more positivity.

By doing so you set an example and people learn to explore themself and overclock themselves to max turbo boost. So Just believe in what you do and trust your investment in today to get a better returns tomorrow.

@albert_sharma